03/16/2010 (6:18 pm)
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yesterday after school my best friend came up to me and she said that she had to leave asap, she said that her sister was in the car waiting for her in the front of the school. so she left. i thought it was kinda odd, and i always give her rides to and from school everyday. She didn't even offer me a ride home - we're neighbors. so i had to walk home and while on the way home my other friend told me that my best friend actually saw my best friend meeting a guy and that her sister wasn't picking her up at all. she lied to me straight in the face about. i don't know what to do? i'm kinda avoiding her right now and i'm pretty glad that it is a 4-day-weekend. she's not much of a "best friend" because now that i consider it, she's probably lied to me millions of times, but about meeting a guy is what I don't understand. Why would she lie to me about meeting a guy after school? I know who the guy is and I don't have any problem with him or anything. So...I have a right to me mad, right? And on Sunday night she's probably going to ask me for a ride in morning to school too. This situation probably sounds really stupid but it's really aggravating me how she just looked me in the eyes and lied to me. aw dont worry. it will sort its self out. ask her why she had to go. then if sh lies again, tell her you saw hur. dw bout it. ur her bestie right??Yes, I would be angry also...but the best thing you could possibly do is ask her about it, because for all you know it could be a case of mistaken identity. The worst thing to do is to let your emotions and anger build up without giving your friend the "heads up" on the situation. Just ask her about it, you guys seem to be pretty good friends...so she should not take any offense to it, and maybe your other friend got it all wrong or maybe there is a good explanation!Say to her, I know that your sister didn't really pick you up, I saw you. I don't care you have a boyfriend, it's the fact that you lied to me especially as we're meant to be best friends.
If she's a good mate, she'll apologize, if she's not, she'll probably tell you you're lying, or that you're over reacting. If that's the case, tell her to get lost, you can't trust her anymore, and to come back to you when she's ready to behave like an adult.
In the mean time, spend more time with other friends, maybe even get your own boyfriend.
Oh, and just think that this guy may have been a family member, like a cousin, or nephew or something...She just didn't know how to explain to you that she wanted to have some alone time with her bf. She didn't want to hurt your feelings or anything so she just made up a lie hoping that you wouldn't take it the wrong way.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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